Men

Before my husband and I ever got married we used to talk about possibly having a threesome with another female. We talI asked him ok but what do you think your role in this would be? I'm a very jealous person so no female is touching my husband. Me and her can go to town on each other and he can touch me but that is it. He tells me he will take whatever he can get. I asked him what that meant. He said whatever I will allow he will do. So basically if I allow him to fuck her he will. I got pissed!! He said I have no right to get mad. How would you have reacted? That is basically telling me he wants to fuck other girls. I'm still mad over this. Am I wrong?

If a Man Wants You...and other pearls of wisdom

Stolen from Bad Girls Guide

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away...
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be
Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job.. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow/steal someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.


You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships....there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship


You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others..


Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Pass this on woman and men.

BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............